Exothink helps when you feel stuck between two choices. Instead of weighing pros and cons, it helps you understand why both choices feel necessary, so you can find a third option that works for both sides.
The steps
- Problem — describe the situation in a sentence or two.
- Conflict — name the two actions pulling against each other.
- Needs — say what each action is meant to give you.
- Ultimate goal — the shared aim both needs serve.
- Assumptions — the hidden beliefs that make the conflict feel unavoidable.
- Solutions — ideas that challenge one of those beliefs.
- Decide & act — pick a way forward and plan the next step.
Most people finish a first decision in 15 to 30 minutes. You can stop at any point; your answers are saved.